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April 24th, 2009 at 2:16 pm
My wife recently told me she doesn’t love me anymore… how do I turn things around?
I'm a great dad always there for the kids and helping
I've supported her even through her periods of disliking herself physically.
I love her and have always told her and showed her.
I'm not perfect
I don't know what to do.
April 24th, 2009 at 7:18 pm
Try to talk to her to see if you can get the candle burning again. Do something that made her fall in love with you in the first place.
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April 24th, 2009 at 7:20 pm
get out now!
it will only break your heart worse when she dumps you after you put in a huge effort to save it.
if you are making sacrifices, and she ain't …
get out. !!
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April 24th, 2009 at 7:22 pm
fireproof your marriage!
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April 24th, 2009 at 7:24 pm
If your doing all that then there is not much more you can do. The best thing to do is if you are a believer in God pray and also ask her why has she fallen out of love with you.
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April 24th, 2009 at 7:26 pm
That's one of the worst things a spouse can say and I'm sorry for that
Something must be going on with her that she said this to you
(by the way no ones perfect)
Have you tried talking to her asking her what the problem is and what can you do?
Because unless you know there's nothing you can do to try and fix it
Maybe it's her and she doesn't want it fixed that being the case she might need to talk with a professional to handle whatever is going on with her
Good Luck
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April 24th, 2009 at 7:28 pm
You have to change the tempo of your relationship and take control. You have to be more sexually assertive & make love to her like you are a teenager again. Show her who the boss is. She'll be astonished, yet aroused.
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April 24th, 2009 at 7:30 pm
Well, most women don't dream of a guy who have "supported her even through her periods of disliking herself physically". They want a bit more than that.
I know you love her, and I know you think you've shown her your love. But trust me, you and I don't think the same way as women do. We think that doing nice things for our women shows love. They typically look for more physical expressions of our feelings. Sit her down and tell her how you feel about her. Think about what you're going to say before you say it, and don't be afraid to scream it to the world. She's the most important thing in your life, and you need to make sure she knows it.
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April 24th, 2009 at 7:32 pm
I'd recommend a combination of all the answers….
-do something that won her in the first place
-watch the movie Fireproof if you are a family of faith
-get into counseling, she at least owes you a lot of reasons right now
-if she is unwilling to try, GET OUT.
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April 24th, 2009 at 7:34 pm
if you feel you are doing and showing then? if you are and youll are getting fellings hurt like if she really does'nt feel like you love her dont you think in your heart you should truly make her feel it and see it,if you really are like we are in the beginning.. in love,
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April 24th, 2009 at 7:36 pm
We are in the same boat. Except I'm not interested in turning it around.
You can't make someone love you. Period.
I am convinced that the true definition of love means love does not fade.
I figure if my husband honestly doesn't love me now…then he never did.
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April 24th, 2009 at 7:38 pm
Been there…. I am the wife though..I said that to my husband in August of 08. I left (we do have 4 children together) went to be on my own. I don't know what brought it on for her but i was suffering from a severe manic depressive state. I was happy and then i totally bottomed out. I went from sleeping all the time to never leaving the house. She may be depressed and she may not but i can tell you from experience that one movie has totally turned my life around. We decided one evening to watch Fireproof together (mind you that he's not the emotional type) and by the time the movie was over i was on his lap crying (he was crying too) and telling him that i love him so much and that we will be back together soon. That movie changed my life and i am not a very christian woman, but i hope i will be soon.
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